As you may or may not know by now, I’m a huge “advocate” when it comes to re-instilling masculinity into today’s… men, since they seem to have more feminine traits as the days go by, and that’s disturbing.
You can see why I view Masculinity As A positive Force here.
But today I’ll be telling you HOW your life can get better by applying masculinity to it, let’s see some of the reasons:
1) Improve Your Relationships
As you grow into a more masculine man, your good relationships will flourish, while the bad ones will wither and fall away.
The reason for that is that by becoming more masculine you will naturally acquire traits that are deemed as powerful– by the good kind of people around you – while the bad ones will just feel “threatened” by those traits.
And you don’t need me to tell you that you need empowering people in your life, not envious little pricks.
In this way, your already strong relationships will become even stronger because they now see you as a man worthy of trust and respect, who cares about himself and the values he holds, while the bad ones will attack you for being “over the top” or “different”,
Because they have nothing they will STAND UP for.
It’s all a balancing act, really.
Ditch that kind of company.
2) Makes You Action-Oriented
Now, this shouldn’t come as a surprise because masculine men throughout history have been known to NOT sit on laurels, take as an example heroes, emperors, warriors, men of knowledge, but even the most normal of men, like a simple farmer, a worker, a factory owner, a baker… you name it.
But they all had one thing in common: they were focused on DOING THINGS.
Today the average man is dead in the eyes, crushed by his insecurities and his lack of confidence & ambition or even a semblance of a SPARK in his heart, drooling over a screen and UNFIT for reality,
Make yours the qualities of the Men Of The Past instead (see stoicism for example), where even the average man was extraordinary.
3) Feel More Grounded
Masculinity in itself is a grounding force.
It’s no mystery that women are attracted to it when they search for the ideal partner, since women look out for a stable, solid man as support.
So, as a masculine man, you can be sure to have something sturdy on which to base your life upon, and that’s because masculinity naturally gives you a skillset-so to speak- that enables you to be prepared to face any adversity:
And the list goes on…
These are all powerful traits that usually come with a masculine man and they act in coordination to help the man navigate through life with clarity, without being swayed as much.
Being grounded in your masculinity also means that you know where to look out for in times of need, it means that you remember your roots and remain faithful to them so you can find MEANING in your existence as a man,
So that you remember what made you what you are today.